This section monitors the shift from individualism to relationality as the central factor of social life. Welcome to the Ecozoic Era!
* I (Michel Bauwens) fully endorse this as the spiritual theory behind an integrative p2p theory for social and personal change: A P2P Interpretation of Soul as Intersubjective Reality and Spirit as Interobjective Reality. By Joe Corbett.
- Please read: An Introduction to Peer-to-Peer Relationality.
- 1 Introductory Citations
- 2 Introduction
- 3 Key Essays
- 4 Related Wiki sections
- 5 Short Citations
- 6 Long Citations
- 6.1 Mutuality vs Hierarchy
- 6.2 Peter Kropotkin on Mutual Aid
- 6.3 No Real Freedom for Anyone without Real Freedom for All
- 6.4 The Three Types of Relationships
- 6.5 The Constellation Method of Social Change
- 6.6 Transcending the individual human mind through collaboration
- 6.7 The Strength of Weak Ties
- 6.8 Towards a science of relationships
- 6.9 The New Relationality
- 6.10 Alone = All in One
- 6.11 The metaphysics of co-evolution
- 6.12 An Adaptable Self, always in relation to the world
- 6.13 Rank Thinking vs. Peer Thinking
- 6.14 What are the most productive incentives to promote cooperation?
- 6.15 The Era of the Globalization of People
- 6.16 Converging Self-Interest with Mutuality
- 6.17 On a Remediated world
- 6.18 Jung on the virtue of imperfection
- 7 Interaction Grammar
- 8 Key Resources
- Cooperativity is fundamental ... There is no dictator in cell regulation, no first among equals, no master regulator, no top-down system of governance.
- Toby J. Gibson, molecular biologist 
- We are emerging from a long dominator era into one that demands mutuality. The dominator (hierarchical) mode appears strong, but in reality is too slow to respond to the crisis of the time. Mutualism, on the other hand, is liable to be too fragile in the face of dominator pressures: the only way to resist these, based on intricacy, "is for small circles to join hands in a collaborative network that is broader and tighter than anything domination can provide.(p 286)" The keys to doing this, which she works out through many practical examples, are "education, empowerment, infrastructure, support networks, liberation and love.
- "The big lesson of the twentieth century for commoners was to discover that collective decision-making is a “lesser evil,” a response to scarcity that must be limited to situations in which this is inevitable. It’s not necessary for everyone to vote on a uniform if each one can wear what they want. It’s not necessary to agree on a menu if several different things can be cooked that will completely satisfy everyone. That is, where one person’s decision does not drastically reduces others’ possible choices, the sphere of the decision should be personal, not collective. Collective choices, democratic methods and voting are ways of managing situations where, more or less explicitly, there is a conflict in the use of resources. They are a “last option” imposed by scarcity. The point is to avoid, as much as possible, the homogenization that they involve. That is why in a community committed to abundance, the wealth produced is measured by the extent of the personal decision-space. It’s no good to create more goods and income if that doesn’t have an impact on everyone’s option-space. It’s no good to defend individuality if resources are not created to make it possible without conflict. To gain ground against scarcity, build abundance and therefore continuously enlarge the material base of personal decision-space is the objective of economic activity of an egalitarian community that works."
- David de Ugarte 
What kind of human relationships arise in a peer to peer context? What are their dynamics?
This section examines topics related to p2p-oriented views of relations, which are, and true to the p2p tradition, inventive and exploratory.
Only the 4 first columns of the P2P Encyclopedia concepts have been ported at this stage.
Our main inspiration for our theorizing is the Relational Typology of Alan Page Fiske; however, the Grid-Group Theory is very close, see Why the Four Types of Intersubjectivity Need Each Other!.
- We support the Convivialist Manifesto
Recommended Introductory Material
- Watch this fascinating interview/conversation: Bruce Lipton on Why Natural and Human Evolution is Communal, not Individual ; and also: The Human as Interspecies Community., by Dorion Sagan.
- For more context, here's already an Introduction on Individuality, Relationality, and Collectivity, by Michel Bauwens. Comments by Adrian Chan and Nathan Lovejoy
- Evan Thompson on the Primacy of Intersubjectivity and Christophe Aguiton and Dominique Cardon on why Contemporary Individualization is Relational. Chris Lucas on Integral Intersubjectivity: "I" and "It" perspectives need to be complemented by "We" perspectives. Margaret Archer on Why Morphogenesis Implies Peer to Peer Socialization
- Paolo Virno on Collectivity and Individuality: Collectivity as a Precondition for Individuality
- Mark Pesce on the Four Characteristics of the Age of Connection, i.e. Hyperconnectivity ; Hyperdistribution ; Hyperintelligence ; Hyperempowerment
- Against Digital Dualism : the real is not separate from the virtual!!
- Video: Roman Krznaric on Moving from the Age of Introspection to the Age of Outrospection
- New aspects of the digital self, by Grant McCracken et al: Cloudiness, Exhaust Data, Phatic Communication, Ambient Intimacy
- Dave Pollard: The Three Constitutive Communities of the Self 
- Manuel De Landa: Hierarchies and Meshworks are always mixed
- Terry Anderson: Distinguishing groups, networks, and collectives
- Rosemary Bechler on the Difference between Individualism and Selfish Individualism
- Compare the New Relational Paradigm to the older one.
- Tim Berners-Lee: Why Sharing may require some loss of control
- The typology of Collaborative Community
- Christopher Allen: The numbers that matter for governing communities: Personal Circle; Group Tresholds and Power Laws
- Evolving from Egocentric Competition via Sociocentric Collaboration to Worldcentric and Kosmocentric Collaboration
- Digital Legacies, Online Souls, and the Burdens of Remembering
Where the scientific evidence for our cooperative and emphatic nature comes from
Summary from Joe Brewer :
- Evolutionary Biology :: Hominid history (and that of all mammals) shows how group selection pressures give advantage to those species that cooperate successfully.
- Contemporary Neuroscience :: Our brains are structured to process social emotions (guilt, shame, compassion, gratitude, etc.) as part of our conceptual systems. Our mental models for cultural settings are mitigated by these feelings, elevating their influence on our daily lives.
- Social Psychology :: Our moral sentiments arise through group interaction. Tribal behaviors appear as short-lived “swarms” which persist so long as emotions run high.
- Cognitive Anthropology :: Studies of religious concepts and ritual practices reveal how our modes of thought and emotion get altered by group processes (a class of phenomena that are easily observed in all group settings, including how meetings are facilitated within a company or at a community event).
This is an absolutely remarkable essay that charts the history of community within the capitalist form, from the earliest community oriented paternalism (the 'Gemeinshaft' model described by Tonnies), to the bureaucratic ('Gesellshaft') model described by Weber and Durkheim, culminating in the emergence of collaborative community, existing in tension and contradiction within the hierarchical and market environment of for-profit companies.
See: The social environment model: Small heroes and the evolution of human society. by Brian Whitworth and Alex P. Whitworth. First Monday, Volume 15, Number 11 - 1 November 2010 
- Essay 3: The relational ground of human consciousness. John Heron: Notes on Spiritual Leadership and Relational Spirituality
- Kingsley Dennis on The Great Acceleration: The Astounding Growth in the Psychological Evolution of the Human Self.
Related Wiki sections
- Material on "Participation", http://p2pfoundation.net/Category:Participation
- The emerging sharing economy, http://p2pfoundation.net/Category:Sharing
- Cooperation and cooperatives, http://p2pfoundation.net/Category:Cooperation ; http://p2pfoundation.net/Category:Cooperatives
- Material on "Facilitation", http://p2pfoundation.net/Category:Facilitation
- Material on "Collective Intelligence", http://p2pfoundation.net/Category:Intelligence
So Hum, Sanskrit dictum, which can be translated as "You are, therefore I am". 
We participate, therefore we are 
“The world exists only to the extent to which you participate in it.” - Roy Ascott 
In the past cooperation was a kind of dream, an ideal. Today its a requirement for survival.
- Nicholas Roberts 
our differences are our strength
- Andrew Lord
We have moved from communities of neccessity, to elective communities.
- Alan Moore 
There is nothing noble in being superior to some other person. The true nobility is in being superior to your previous self.
- Hindu Proverb
The less you share, the less power you have. And the more you share, the more possible it is for you to get social support.
- Isaac Mao 
The longer we listen to one another – with real attention – the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.
- Elisabeth Kübler-Ross 
Online communities are not virtual. The people that we meet online are not virtual. They are real communities populated with real people, which is why so many end up meeting in the flesh.
- Robert Kozinets 
Mutuality vs Hierarchy
""We are emerging from a long dominator era into one that demands mutuality. The dominator (hierarchical) mode appears strong, but in reality is too slow to respond to the crisis of the time. Mutualism, on the other hand, is liable to be too fragile in the face of dominator pressures: the only way to resist these, based on intricacy, “is for small circles to join hands in a collaborative network that is broader and tighter than anything domination can provide.(p 286)”
- S. J. Goerner 
Peter Kropotkin on Mutual Aid
"We may safely say that mutual aid is as much a law of animal life as mutual struggle; but that as a factor of evolution, it most probably has a far greater importance, inasmuch as it favors the development of such habits and characters as insure the maintenance and further development of the species, together with the greatest amount of welfare and enjoyment of life for the individual, with the least waste of energy."
- Peter Kropotkin, Mutual Aid 
No Real Freedom for Anyone without Real Freedom for All
“Man becomes conscious of himself and his humanity only in society and only by the collective action of the whole society. [...] I am truly free only when all human beings, men and women, are equally free. The freedom of other men, far from negating or limiting my freedom, is, on the contrary, its necessary premise and confirmation.”
- M. Bakunin
The Three Types of Relationships
Synergic Science pioneer Edward Haskell:
•relationships can be adversary where either I lose or you lose or we both lose,
•relationships can be neutral where we don't lose, but neither do we win,
•or, relationships can be synergic — good for both of us — WIN-WIN.
We can be more working together than we can be working separately. And, much more working together than we can be working against each other. This is just common sense.
- Human synergy is working together by explicit intent. (1+1)>>2
- Human neutrality is working separately and ignoring each other. (1+1)=2
- Human adversity is working against each other.(1+1)<2
The Constellation Method of Social Change
In spite of current ads and slogans, the world doesn't change one person at a time. It changes as networks of relationships form among people who discover they share a common cause and vision of what's possible.
- Margaret Wheatley and Deborah Freize 
Transcending the individual human mind through collaboration
"The power of the unaided, individual mind is highly overrated: the Renaissance scholar no longer exists. Although creative individuals are often thought of as working in isolation, the role of interaction and collaboration with other individuals is critical. Creative activity grows out of the relationship between an individual and the world of his or her work, and from the ties between an individual and other human beings. The predominant activity in designing complex systems is that participants teach and instruct each other. Because complex problems require more knowledge than any single person possesses, it is necessary that all involved stakeholders participate, communicate, and collaborate with each other."
- Transcending the individual human mind 
The Strength of Weak Ties
"the organisation of exchanges doesn't require the strong involvement of the whole community, but a cluster of very active participants can lead the community in producing a lot of external effects. In massive communities, the diversity of involvements and goals of users can easily be overcome: collective activities result from the opportunities created by personal publication."
- Christophe Aguiton and Dominique Cardon
Towards a science of relationships
"It is impossible to deny that science has made great progress by taking things apart. However, what is left out of this approach is the problem of understanding relationships between the parts.
Indeed, the importance of this understanding should be self-apparent. If all systems around us were made of the same elementary particles, and their relationships were irrelevant, then all systems would be identical. Obviously, this is not the case. Our quest to understand the parts becomes so detailed that we forget what we were trying to understand at the start. Moreover the strategy of looking at parts may blind us to the way properties of a system arise from the relationships between the components. This reflects itself in what we think about in general. More specifically, it affects how we approach problem solving when we try to solve problems in society. Indeed one of the main difficulties in solving problems is that we think the problem resides in the parts themselves, when, in actuality, it is to be found in the interactions between the parts. As a result, many crucial questions can only be addressed by thinking carefully about connections in a system as a whole."
- Yaneer Bar-Yam 
The New Relationality
"What is emerging in the work of sociologists is a framework that sees the networked society or the networked individual as entailing an abundance of social connections and more effectively deployed attention. The concern with the decline of community conceives of a scarcity of forms of stable, nurturing, embedding relations, which are mostly fixed over the life of an individual and depend on long-standing and interdependent relations in stable groups, often with hierarchical relations. What we now see emerging is a diversity of forms of attachment and an abundance of connections that enable individuals to attain discrete components of the package of desiderata that ?community? has come to stand for in sociology."
- Yochai Benkler 
Alone = All in One
"The English word “alone” comes from “all one” and if you understand the significance of this, there will be no “dissociety.” You are connected to others only to the degree to which you are connected to yourself. Therefore, “dissociety” indicates not only the dissociation from others but also the dissociation from oneself and thus the inability to be oneself.”
- Yasuhiko Genku Kimura 
The metaphysics of co-evolution
"The positive value of interactive relations is expressed and measured not in “oppositional” or “hierarchical,” but in “cooperative” terms. It is expressed and measured not through zero-sum hierarchies and power-relations, such as losing and winning, controlling and being controlled, manipulating or being manipulated, etc. The positive value of interactions is shown in terms of proper functioning and fitting, balance and harmony, authenticity and growth."
- Predrag Cicovacki 
An Adaptable Self, always in relation to the world
"The reference to “northward arm” and “southward arm” is typically Wintu, and its usage suggests a cultural wisdom so deep and unconscious that it was embedded in the very structure of language. In English we refer to the right arm and left arm, and we might describe a certain mountain as being to our right or left, in front or in back of us depending on which way we are facing at the moment. We use the body — the self — as the point of reference against which we describe the world. The Wintu would never do this, and indeed the Wintu language would not permit it. If a certain mountain was to the north, say, the arm nearest that mountain would be called the northward arm. If the Wintu turned around, the arm that had previously been referred to as the northward arm would now be called the southward arm. In other words, the features of the world remained the constant reference, the sense of self was what changed — a self that continually accommodated and adjusted to a world in which the individual was not the center of all creation."
- From the Book: The Way We Lived: California Indian Stories, Songs and Reminiscences. 
Rank Thinking vs. Peer Thinking
’I define rank thinking as the belief that only a few in any organization should be given special privilege to monopolize information, control decision-making, and command obedience from the vast majority either through coercive or manipulative power. Peer thinking, on the other hand, is the belief that everyone in the organization should have equal standing to share in information, participate in the decision-making process, and choose to follow through persuasive means. Peer thinking assumes that we each have equal privilege to speak and an obligation to listen.”’ Peer-based organizations create a space–an arena–where we come to recognize and respect one another as equal participants in organizational life.”
- From the book, “The Myth of Leadership” by Jeffrey S. Nielsen. Davis-Black Publishing, 2004
What are the most productive incentives to promote cooperation?
In a society where most people cooperate, then it will be costly to reward them all, while a society in which most people defect would pay a high price for trying to punish them all. So the obvious way to transform an uncooperative population into a cooperative one would be to first provide positive incentives, and later punish the few remaining individuals who refuse to be swayed.
- Christian Hilbe and Karl Sigmund 
The Era of the Globalization of People
“Globalisation is not a new phenomenon. As analysed by Thomas Friedman in The World Is Not Flat, in the 16th and 17th centuries empires became global, whereas in the 20th century it was companies that became global, and the differential factor is that since the end of the millennium, ten years ago, it is people who are becoming global. And again it is a third technological revolution that is promoting the transformation: the revolution promoted by new information and communication technologies, of which the internet is the most transformative expression.”
- Josu Jon Imaz 
Converging Self-Interest with Mutuality
"Much of modern ideology emphasises how problematic it is to be both self-interested and mutual, to be economic as well as social, we might say. When culture is set up to expect a conflict between the two, it is hard to be both. Yet the two sides are often inseparable in practice and some societies, by encouraging private and public interests to coincide, have managed to integrate them more effectively than ours. One premise of the new human universal will thus be the unity of self and society."
- Keith Hart , p. 7
On a Remediated world
We must completely abandon the notion that there is a real and a virtual world, as if the two were opposed. Instead, we must look at how new media is layering over existing spaces, thus reorganizing them. Graham is building on the notion of Bolter and Grusin; remediation. It is constituted (the virtual) on top of our real world. Remediation is taking place constantly. Remediation of painting, film and television, of cities, houses and streets. The old notion of holographic pods, parallel worlds, cyberspace, does not exist. We are far from it."
- Stephen Graham 
Jung on the virtue of imperfection
C.J. Jung on the preconditions for human renewal:
"A human relationship is not based on differentiation and perfection, for these only emphasize the differences or call forth the exact opposite; it is based, rather, on imperfection, on what is weak, helpless, and in need of support—the very ground and motive for dependence. The perfect have no need of others, but weakness has… it is from need and distress that new forms of existence arise, and not from idealistic requirements or mere wishes. What our world lacks is the psychic connection; no clique, no community of interests, no political party, and no State will ever be able to replace this.”
From the TransforMap ontology :
bartering: Here you can exchange something: give & take by way of bartering
lending: Here you can borrow something (contributions towards costs). by way of lending
renting: Here you can rent something. by way of renting
gifting: Here you can give and receive. by way of gifting
rebuying_reselling: Here you can get and leave things that are not needed anymore. Second-hand. rebuy & resell
co-use: Here you can use (some)things with others. co-use
diy_and_dit: Here you can produce or repair, upcycle or downcycle something by yourself or together with others. Do It Yourself & Together
buying_and_selling: Here your can buy and sell things. buy & sell
Key (theory) Approaches
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Pages in category "Relational"
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- Abolish Human Rentals
- Abundance Logic
- Abundance Logic vs Scarcity Logic
- Abundance vs. Scarcity
- Abundance vs. Scarcity Mentality
- Abundant Community
- Accidental Influential
- Accountability Based Influence
- Activity Stream
- Activity Streams
- Ad Hoc Temporary Social Networks
- Adrian Chan
- Adversary Systems
- Advogado on the Mechanics of Reputation
- Affective Capitalism
- Affinity Group
- Against the Professional Cooptation of Community
- Age of Connection
- Age of Empathy
- Agonistic Giving
- Alan Moore on Community and Identity
- Alex Steffen on the Sharing Economy
- Algorithmic Authority
- Algorithmic Self
- Allen Butcher
- Alone Together
- Alternatives to Liberal Individualism and Authoritarian Collectivism
- Altruism Revolution
- Altruism, Reciprocity and Social Image in Peer Production Economy
- Amara's Law
- Amber Case on Cyborg Anthropology
- Ambient Awareness
- Ambient Intimacy
- American Teen Sociality in Networked Publics
- Andreas Kluth on the New Nomadism
- Animals as Persons
- Another Perfect World
- Answer People
- Anthropology of Unequal Society
- Antifragile Things That Gain From Disorder
- Antisocial Notworking
- Appropriation and Annotation Literacy
- Architecture of Participation
- Are Open Source Communities Sexist
- Arquitecturas Colectivas/es
- Arrosa irrati sarea/eu
- Art of Free Cooperation
- Arthur Coulter
- Asian Philosophical-Religious Roots of Marxist Dialectics
- Assemblage Theory
- Assemblage Theory and Social Complexity
- Associationism in Epistemology
- Assortative Network
- Assurance Game
- Astounding Growth in the Psychological Evolution of the Human Self
- Ateneu Candela/es
- Attention Data
- Attention Economy
- Attention Profiling
- Attention Trust
- Audience 2.0
- Augmented Social Cognition
- Augmented Social Networks
- Aural Architecture
- Authorship Through Networks
- Autonomous Reputation Framework
- Autonomy and Control in the Era of Post-Privacy
- Autonomy-respecting Help
- Autopoetic Systems
- Avatar Anxiety
- Awareness Design
- Balancing Individualism and Communitarianism
- Barry Wellman on the New Social Network Operating System
- Barry Wellman on Twitter as a Case Study of a Networked Social Operating System
- Beckstrom's Law
- Behavioural Economics
- Being and Technology
- Being in Common
- Bernardo Huberman on Social Attention
- Betweenness and Closeness - Indicators
- Bibliography on P2P Intersubjectivity
- Biocultural Community Protocol
- Biological Evolution of Friendlyness as Possible Basis for Networked Economy
- Biospiritual Virtues
- Birth of Impersonal Exchange
- Blockchain ID
- Blog Mob
- Blogging Practices of Knowledge Workers
- Body Without Organs
- Books on Building Online Community
- Border Knowledges
- Born Digital
- Boundary Object
- Boundary Spanner
- Bow Tie Structures
- Brain Physiology of Egoistic and Empathic Motivation
- Brokerage, Boundary Spanning, and Leadership in Open Innovation Communities
- Brown Revolution
- Bruce Lipton on Why Natural and Human Evolution is Communal, not Individual
- Bruce Schneier on the Importance of Trust in Society
- Bruce Sterling on the Internet of Things and Spimes
- Buffer Vehicles as Commons in a Carpooling System
- Building Networks for Community Organizers
- Building Web 2.0 Reputation Systems
- Building Web Reputation Systems
- Business Models for Influence and Reputation
- Bystander Effect
- Campbell Mithun on Sharing Attitudes 2012
- Cardinal Human Principles
- Care-Centered Economy
- Caring Relationship Tickets
- Carolyn Baker on the Demise of Heroic Consciousness
- Catalytic Communities
- Category Theory
- Causes of Reactive Violence
- Celebrity, Publicity, and Self-Branding in Web 2.0
- Cellular Church
- Center for Building a Culture of Empathy
- Center for Communal Studies
- Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education
- Centrality-Based Approach to Networks
- Cesar Hidalgo on the Meritocracy and Topocracy of Networks
- Chaordic Organizations - Characteristics
- Charlene Spretnak
- Charlene Spretnak on Relational Reality
- Charter for Compassion
- Chicken Game
- Chilacayote collective/es
- Chris Messina on Activity Streaming
- Christopher Allen on the Dunbar Number
- Circular Entertainment
- Circular Gift
- Circumstantial Community
- Citizen Dialogue and Deliberation
- City, Anonymity, and P2P Relationality
- Ciutadania 4.0/es
- Civic Intelligence
- Civic Space
- Civil Societarian
- Claire Petitmengin
- Class Action
- Classifications of Communitarianism
- Cloud Operating System
- Cloud Power
- Cloud-Based Identity Projects
- Co-Belongingness of Money and Community
- Co-Creative Gardening
- Co-individuation of Minds, Bodies, Social Organizations and Technè
- Co-operative Inquiry
- Coercion and Exchange
- Cognitive Diversity